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Para que todas as mulheres não vivam uma vida "planeada" por outros, em função de outros e, para outros!

Dia Internacional da Mulher

Hoje,
não quero ser
a mulher forte, com atitude
de leoa, sedutora,
aquela que luta, defende,
conquista,
consola, abriga...

Hoje,
eu quero deixar que
a mulher sensível, delicada,
romântica, frágil...
seja vista e sentida!
Quero um carinho, um abraço,
um colo...
Quero braços que me
envolvam
protejam, abriguem.
Quero um corpo onde possa
me aconchegar;
um ombro para poder chorar,
uma mão que acaricie
meus cabelos,
olhos que vejam as lágrimas
cairem no meu rosto
quando falo dos meus
medos ...
uma boca que me diga palavras
de ânimo e esperança
e que me beijem com
amor e carinho!
Quero olhos que vejam minha
fragilidade,
que me admirem por ser delicada
e que não desejem que eu
tenha que ser sempre forte!
Quero ser admirada, notada,
e quero que me queiram
por também ter um lado frágil.
Quero que me admirem por ser
mulher na sua essência,
não só o lado leoa, mas
o lado beija-flor e também flor!
O lado que necessita do outro
que também precisa receber!
Quero hoje... a fragilidade de ser
MULHER!!!

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A Mind Virus

"The simplest way to describe a mind virus is an addiction. A repeated action, with a consistent harming potential, most of the time performed without our will. Smoking, over drinking, or fighting are good examples of a mind virus. Mind viruses are learned behaviors which are self-propagating and slowly consuming the host. But addictions are only the most visible, and not the most dangerous mind virus.
The most dangerous viruses are those who are spreading without our knowledge and, even more, without easy to spot symptoms. I mean, smoking and over drinking are so easy to spot, they have a very clear pathology. You can’t miss them. But how can you identify a mind virus which constantly prevents you from being happy? Or a mind virus which creates limiting beliefs about money? Or a virus which constantly makes you feel powerless and defeated?

First of all, a mind virus is something you “caught” from somebody else. Viruses are spreading from host to host. You aren’t born with them. So, the first step in identifying a repetitive behavior as a mind virus would be to identify its origin. Did we have this behavior since we were born? Or we learned it in school, or at work? Most of the time we get mind viruses from social interaction.
Second, a mind virus is able to adjust to various changes of the host.
And third, a very common characteristic of a mind virus would be its ability to replicate itself. It will actually try to propagate itself onto other people around us. "

How To Keep Your Mind Virus Free

Espelho meu...

"Other people are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself. "

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daqui

E é mesmo só assim que aprendemos

"It's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remember sweetness.
We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little from peace."

Chuck Palahniuk