O doce nunca é tão doce sem o amargo

However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

A rejeição reduz o QI??

Rejection can dramatically reduce a person's IQ and their ability to reason analytically, while increasing their aggression, according to new research.

"It's been known for a long time that rejected kids tend to be more violent and aggressive," says Roy Baumeister of the Case Western Reserve University in Ohio, who led the work. "But we've found that randomly assigning students to rejection experiences can lower their IQ scores and make them aggressive."

Baumeister thinks rejection interferes with a person's self-control. "To live in society, people have to have an inner mechanism that regulates their behaviour. Rejection defeats the purpose of this, and people become impulsive and self-destructive. You have to use self-control to analyse a problem in an IQ test, for example - and instead, you behave impulsively."

Daqui

You cannot...

Be who you Are!

If you are not happy in an intimate relationship you are not happy...

Emotional Fitness

See it as it is, not worse than it is

Become Who You Want To Be

“If you see a difference between where you are and where you want to be - consciously change your thoughts, words, and actions to match your grandest vision.”


Neal Donald Walsch

Awakening

A time comes in your life when you finally get…when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out…ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying and blaming and struggling to hold on. Then, like a child quieting down after a tantrum, you blink back your tears and begin to look at the world through new eyes.

This is your awakening.

Finally, with courage in you heart, you take a stand, you take a deep breath, and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can.

Daqui

"You know how they say you only hurt the ones you love? Well, it works both ways."

Chuck Palahniuk

“Anybody can do just about anything with himself that he really wants to and makes up his mind to do. We are all capable of greater things than we realize.”

Norman Vincent Peale

“Throw your heart over the fence and the rest will follow.”

Norman Vincent Peale

“Stand up to your obstacles and do something about them. You will find that they haven’t half the strength you think they have.”

Norman Vincent Peale

Não forcem as situações...

Tudo acontece quando tem que acontecer!

Lessons to Life

Daqui

Deixem as crianças brincar com a comida!

Pois, nunca se sabe...
Imagens

“You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving.”

Amy Carmichael

“Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them to become what they are capable of being.”

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Mood do Dia

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"...the only way to find true happiness is to risk being completely cut open."

If you aren’t happy single, you won’t be happy in a relationship.

Lisboa debaixo de Terra

An Education

Para que todas as mulheres não vivam uma vida "planeada" por outros, em função de outros e, para outros!

Dia Internacional da Mulher

Hoje,
não quero ser
a mulher forte, com atitude
de leoa, sedutora,
aquela que luta, defende,
conquista,
consola, abriga...

Hoje,
eu quero deixar que
a mulher sensível, delicada,
romântica, frágil...
seja vista e sentida!
Quero um carinho, um abraço,
um colo...
Quero braços que me
envolvam
protejam, abriguem.
Quero um corpo onde possa
me aconchegar;
um ombro para poder chorar,
uma mão que acaricie
meus cabelos,
olhos que vejam as lágrimas
cairem no meu rosto
quando falo dos meus
medos ...
uma boca que me diga palavras
de ânimo e esperança
e que me beijem com
amor e carinho!
Quero olhos que vejam minha
fragilidade,
que me admirem por ser delicada
e que não desejem que eu
tenha que ser sempre forte!
Quero ser admirada, notada,
e quero que me queiram
por também ter um lado frágil.
Quero que me admirem por ser
mulher na sua essência,
não só o lado leoa, mas
o lado beija-flor e também flor!
O lado que necessita do outro
que também precisa receber!
Quero hoje... a fragilidade de ser
MULHER!!!

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A Mind Virus

"The simplest way to describe a mind virus is an addiction. A repeated action, with a consistent harming potential, most of the time performed without our will. Smoking, over drinking, or fighting are good examples of a mind virus. Mind viruses are learned behaviors which are self-propagating and slowly consuming the host. But addictions are only the most visible, and not the most dangerous mind virus.
The most dangerous viruses are those who are spreading without our knowledge and, even more, without easy to spot symptoms. I mean, smoking and over drinking are so easy to spot, they have a very clear pathology. You can’t miss them. But how can you identify a mind virus which constantly prevents you from being happy? Or a mind virus which creates limiting beliefs about money? Or a virus which constantly makes you feel powerless and defeated?

First of all, a mind virus is something you “caught” from somebody else. Viruses are spreading from host to host. You aren’t born with them. So, the first step in identifying a repetitive behavior as a mind virus would be to identify its origin. Did we have this behavior since we were born? Or we learned it in school, or at work? Most of the time we get mind viruses from social interaction.
Second, a mind virus is able to adjust to various changes of the host.
And third, a very common characteristic of a mind virus would be its ability to replicate itself. It will actually try to propagate itself onto other people around us. "

How To Keep Your Mind Virus Free

Espelho meu...

"Other people are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself. "

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daqui

E é mesmo só assim que aprendemos

"It's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remember sweetness.
We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little from peace."

Chuck Palahniuk

Há que ter paciência...

Say wthat you Want!

Daqui

Amizade...

É apoio e não deitar abaixo pela crítica!

Sem comentários...

Do you Know what you are doing?

Sometimes...

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É assim que me sinto...

Get Out... into the World

Get Out
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